Do you think this guy is into me or not?

okay, so about two months ago I met this guy, we'll call him Sam. I'm friends with his brother (Adam). Adam's in a band and Sam and I met at at one of Adam's gigs. We talked at the bar for about two hours and then ended up dancing together for the entire set of Adam's band.



Then I did not see Sam after that for a month, he did not get my number, nor did I get his.



about a month later, a friend and me went to a play that Adam and Sam were in together, went backstage and asked what they were up to after their show. Adam goes "I'm busy, but Sam here has nothing to do". So Sam went to the bar with me and my friend. Two of my other friends met up with us. That night he got my number, was sitting by me the entire time and then we all ended up going to perkins afterwards (besides one of my friends, who went home). He stayed out until four in the morning with me and my friends. He ended up dropping me off at my place, telling me that he wants to hang out again with me sometime and he's happy he was invited along.



A week goes by, he doesn't text or call. I have to ask him to hang out. But when I text him if he wants to go bowling with my friends and me he goes "yeah! That sounds really fun!" and that night he seems to have a lot of fun. Then the same two friends who went to perkins with us last time, went to perkins again after bowling with us again this night. Sam and me drove together while my two friends drove together. We had a lot more fun when it was just the two of us then when we were bowling, in the car we were laughing, talking, and singing to sublime. At perkins we both ordered coffee and he poured and mixed mine for me, I thought that was kind of cute. When I brought him back to his car, we hug, he says "until next time!" and he seemed really excited to see me again.



Then he doesn't text or call ever. Then the next weekend comes up and I end up texting him saying "hey sam, how've ya been?" and it ended up just chit chatting and I eventually ask "what are you doing tonight?" (it was friday) and he goes "well I haven't felt good all week, but if I'm feeling better tomorrow, we could hang out then". and we did. We went to applebees, he drove, he paid, we laughed a lot, we talked a lot, there were never any awkward moments. Then when he brought me back to my car, we hugged again and when I was starting my car, I noticed that he was waiting to make sure my car started.



then he doesn't text or call again. Then I am the one who texts him again. The next thursday I send "hey sam, wanna hang out again this weekend?" and he goes "Adam has a gig tomorrow night, you should come!" and I go and I bring friends.



At Adam's gig Sam flirts with me, dances with me again (our fingers interlacing together). I brought my sister and a few other friends. Some of my friends left early so then it was just me, my sister, and my other friend. (there were a ton of strangers tho, just mentioning my ppl). But my sister was having an long convo with Sam and I was at the other table talking to my other friend. the bar close lights come on, Adam tells Sam that they are leaving, and Sam says goodbye to my sister, then comes over to me and takes my hand to pull me up and he gives me a long hug goodbye. My sister and my friend think he's into me. I would think so too, except for the fact that I'm the one making all the plans and talking to him first. (well, to initiate plans, but he does come up to me and talks first when I'm around him). But at Adams gig he was giving me extra attention, when we went up to the dancefloor to dance, he took my hand and led me up there.



I know it sounds sort of promising, but I just don't know why he doesn't make much effort to see me, but when we do hang out together, we always have fun and he seems to be into me.



Thank you for all your help!Do you think this guy is into me or not?
uhhhh YEAH he is totally into you. And the reason he isn't calling you is because he's probably afraid that you will say no. In fact, he's probably wonderind if you like him too! I mean, that's just how guys are. Also, another reason why he might not be calling is because you ALWAYS call him, and he will figure that you will again so there is no point in asking you. so don't freak. He likes you. No doubt. But my advice is to keep things simple. And not move too quickly with your friendzone relationship, because he can get turned off.Do you think this guy is into me or not?
Maybe he's wondering the same thing about you. You said you've been waiting a few days, then texting him. Maybe he's shy and just isn't sure if your into him. On the other hand, he could be playin you. It's really hard to say with out knowing him but it seems like the only way you'll figure it all out is to talk to him...straight up. Next time you're with him, try asking, jokingly, what the deal is with him not callin you. Maybe you'll be surprised and he'll have a good reason. Then hopefully, that might lead into the conversation that decides where the relationship is going. :) Good luck! Hope it all works out!Do you think this guy is into me or not?
Two things:



He's either into you and he's shy, afraid of contacting you for fear of rejects. So you make things easy on him, when you ask him, and he knows he's wanted.



Or else, your kind of a halfway intriguing booty call that he wants to develop, but he's also got hooks in the water trying to catch other fish too.
He may just be shy? Or maybe he doesnt wanna come on too strong, he definitly likes you, but I think he doesnt know what you like and doesnt wanna suggest something stupid!

Next time when you guys get ready to say goodbye, say something like "You should text me later!" or text him afterwards and tell him how much fun you had, try and get conversations going all the time, get in his comfort zone and maybe he'll start trying =]

best of luck!